a widower (literally, unfortunate/orphaned man; with the added connotation of his being worthy of compassion) (see Molina)
yz ca oc ce vecapa ycauh y yaotl ytoca ytoca [sic] nacxitl- ça ycnovquichtl- onmoçivauhtica ya matlacpovally y mic yçivauh = Here is in addition the distant younger sibling [i.e. cousin] of Yaotl, named Nacxitl. He is just a widower. He had married; 200 days ago his wife died. (Cuernavaca region, ca. 1540s)
As time passed since a man had become a widower, he was increasingly seen as "formerly married," not necessarily someone needing compassion.